Monday, May 9, 2011

ABORTION OF A BABY GIRL

Have u ever thought about the biggest sin followed by many people in our society? Yes, I am talking about the intentional abortions of baby girl that is being carried out by uneducated mothers. They think that a girl is more of a liability for them because of the Dowry system running in our society( that is family of a bride has to give huge amount of material things for the girl survival )while boys will earn for them and his wife will bring all the goods.How pathetic our society traditions are and even the people who are promoting these traditions. I feel so pity on those mothers who are not courageous enough to fight against their own husband or their family for such a cruel act. I realy wanted to ask these women if they feel so inferior or worthless that they don't want to be responsible for bringing up their baby girl into this world??. India, pakistan, China and in many countries, sex selective abortion is being carried out and therefore many doctors usually refuse to inform about child sex to their own parents. Those parents doesn't know that infanticide is a big sin ?? . Actually they are no less than a murderer. I want to ask those mothers where does your motherhood goes when you are ready to do such a horrible crime?? Don't you ever feel before aborting your baby that inside your tummy she was so excited for her existence into this world, she also wanted the same love and importance of her individuality, she also dream to make her mom and dad happy, she must be having hopes of wearing beautiful pink clothes and rubber bands, she also wanted to be your fairy. But Alas! ....Those parents killed all her hopes and desires with her, How sad!


Moreover i also want to emphasize that in Islam it is strictly prohibited as its written in Quran " You shall not kill your children in fear of poverty. We provide for them as well as for you. Killing them is gross offense." (17:31). Moreover, Holy prophet (SAW) condemned the unequality of gender, he hated the dowry system and loved simplicity. Infact from Islamic history the girl had right to ask for man's possesion but Holy prophet (SAWW) even didnt see all this for her very lovable daughter Fatima (RA) marriage who got married with Ali (RA) who was himself a poor guy. But their is no such islamic history which obliged girl's parents to give enormous goods or gold that they hardly afford. I would like to request young girls to stop this tradition of jahez (dowry), fight for your rights, fight for wrong things happening in our society otherwise you will end up in killing your innocent babies. Condemn this illegal sin and don't promote it under pressure of these customs and traditions. Boys and Girls are equal and its the duty of every daughter to take care of their parents the same way as their sons do, so that they don't get this feeling of regret of having daughters rather than sons. Stop hating your own existence, stop hating your own gender. I would also like to tell those boys who are so inhuman that they beat up their wives if they give birth to a duaghter rahter than son that you are unfair . Let me tell you a scientific fact that genes on male chromosomes determine the sex of the baby so they are blaming their wives for no reason. It is very unsympathetic that If you are blessed with son you feel proud and if you are made parents of a daughter you feel guilty in this society. Don't hate female gender because your mother is also a female and heaven lies in her feets.
I would like to appreciate those people who are with me and want to make this world beautiful with no hate, no difference of sex,gender,colour and race. I would like to request you that its now your duty to educate people as much as you can so that no baby girl will be killed before birth, no daughters will be differentiated or criticized on their existence and no woman will be beaten on giving birth to a baby girl.


Love God, Love Nature, Love Humanity

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